The Facts

  I found myself stumbling into this culture in my late teens. It was no easy beginning and nor should it be. Its a tough industry.

  I persisted and fell in love with what this crazy world of food and drink had to offer. I fell in love with the people I met. SO much personality and found that my wild and "head shaking" personality meshed right in. I'd be lying if I sat here saying that I'm this serious, and well behaved young lady. I love my liquor straight and I LOVE my music loud. But always guaranteed to be on time for work the next day and bring my A game. I treat others with respect and put loved ones before myself.

  What has set me apart from the crowd is simple: I'm trying to climb this mountain of a career while also balancing the title of- single mom. In our area females in the kitchen are still a rarity, much less a female who is a single mother. Some how (like with every other situation) I found myself a mother. I had vowed to never have children and next thing you know I'm with child. 10 months later here I am and could not be happier. I'm so in love! Things have changed and it's great. My time is split between changing diapers and upping my game on the line. 

  Many don't believe I can or should continue in this industry. That it won't set a good example for my child. That a 9-5 job would be a better choice. But I say what better example can be set than showing your child that one should do what they love. If you work hard enough you will succeed. 

  In short, my life is crazy. After giving birth to a beautiful baby only a short time ago I am making every attempt to re-enter the industry. My motivation has never been bigger and I can't wait to see where the road takes us now.

  It's a brutal industry and I'll write it like it is.